This is so beautifully written, Cate. I have someone in my life this will bring great comfort--somone in a very similar position but it's been a few more years. She has similar questions about her brother's children and their memories and what she can/should do to fill the gaps. Anyway, I'm going to share this thoughtful, nuanced piece with her.
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This is so beautifully written, Cate. I have someone in my life this will bring great comfort--somone in a very similar position but it's been a few more years. She has similar questions about her brother's children and their memories and what she can/should do to fill the gaps. Anyway, I'm going to share this thoughtful, nuanced piece with her.
Thank you for your kind words, Nina! I wish your friend the best <3
This is a beautiful and loving eulogy in itself
Thank you, Ker❤️